If someone had given me a crystal ball 5 years ago and told me that this is the life I would be living I don’t think I would have believed them. Back in 2012 I was working in marketing and feeling a lack of purpose with what I was bringing to the world. My background is in Psychology and I’ve always been fascinated by love and relationships but I didn’t know how to animate that passion in my work.
A friend introduced me to Selina around the time I was considering a career change in couples counselling and I had just signed up to study NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). We chatted about my love of relationships and how stuck I was feeling in my career and Selina’s recent break up and how stuck she was feeling in her love life.
Selina encouraged me to explore and experiment with love coaching and to take it seriously as a possible career option, offering to be my first client. I thought she was joking at first, I was so stuck in ‘employee mindset’ that I hadn’t even considered that I could be my own boss.
Selina brought her refreshing free-range mindset to the problem and that was so new to me. I remember our first lunch session at The Book Club (Shoreditch) - I felt so full of possibility, so alive and so aligned with love. I was beaming. It was that glimmer of hope. The prospect of freedom that was so exhilarating. Without us knowing, this is where the early seeds of Project Love were being sown - two friends meeting up and swapping their skills to help one another to grow.
Selina taught me how to take my dreams seriously, to explore and experiment and PLAY with those dreams and how to have the courage to make those dreams come true. She taught me how to align my lifestyle with the things that light me up and bring me joy and happiness. She changed my life!
When I met Vicki, I had a career and lifestyle that I loved, I was my own boss and for the past 3 years had been travelling all over the world. I listened to my dreams and by turning them into projects I brought those dreams to life.
But there was one area of my life where I was TOTALLY stuck: my love life.
I longed to be in a happy, loving relationship, but it just wasn’t happening. In fact while the rest of my life was flourishing, my love life seemed to be getting worse and worse. My friends didn’t understand it either - I was doing so well at creating a life and career that I loved, so why was I getting it so wrong when it came to my love life?
When Vicki said she wanted to help women do what I did, I loved that she seemed so confident that she could help women with their love lives - she didn't at all buy into my notion that love was all down to fate. She also didn’t believe in finding love, she believed in clearing away the blocks that stop us from letting love into our lives. And she also believed that love was something you could learn to get really good at.
I loved her practical approach to love and I got a very strong sense that this woman had a great talent for helping women transform...and I was right.
Over the course of 6 months Vicki not only transformed my love life, but she transformed my whole approach to love. She showed me how to soften, how to open up to love and let it into my life. Rather than waiting to fall in love, she showed me how to stand in love and live my life from there.
Six months after we’d met and begun our experiment which we named my ‘Project Love’, I was happier than I had ever been. I was still single, but now I no longer had any doubts that I would meet someone. I knew now that I was ready and in the meantime I was enjoying a new amazing relationship: the loving one I now had with myself.
Not long after that I did meet someone and we’ve been together ever since. Now we’re designing a life we love together, along with our son Sammy.
To me, Vicki is the QUEEN of love. While I will show you how to become the artist of your own life and design the life you want to be living, Vicki will show you how to align your life with love and design your life from the heart.
I can’t wait for you to see the world from Vicki’s eyes. It’s totally contagious. It changed my life and I can’t wait for it to change yours.