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You’re here for a reason

Perhaps you’re feeling stuck and fed up when it comes to love and dating.

Perhaps you are feeling like this whole modern dating game of swiping and meeting people through your phone isn’t for you.

Or maybe you can’t shake the fear that you’ve left it too late and now all the good ones are gone.


And we get it.

We appreciate how hard it can be to feel like you're watching everyone else find their 'person', except you.

We know that the thought of spending another evening endlessly swiping on dating apps makes you want to throw your phone out of the window.

And we get how easy it can be to keep yourself busy to avoid having to deal with the loneliness and disappointment of it all.


But no matter how hopeless and isolated you might be feeling about your love life right now.

And no matter how hard you might think it is to meet people these days,
here is what you need to know:


You absolutely CAN change the course of your love life.

It is not down to fate or luck.

It is down to you.

You have the power to turn your love life around
(just as much as you can change any area of your life around!)


And we know this because over the last 6 years we have seen thousands of women all over the world go from feeling totally stuck in their love lives and feeling like it was never going to happen, to finding themselves in the kind of gorgeous, loving relationship they’d always dreamed of.

And it is so much easier than you think.

Yes, dating can be a rollercoaster ride. The nerves, the not-knowing and the courage required to put yourself out there and open up your heart is always going to feel a little bit scary.

But when you have the right tools, a pair of dedicated love coaches by your side, and a whole vibrant and supportive community of inspirational women to connect with that are on the same journey as you, it suddenly becomes a whole lot easier to open up, get out there and invite love into your life.

And as if by magic… your love life starts to transform.

So if you are ready to make this the year that you transform your love life and find a great partner for you, then we would love to invite you to join...

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The 30 lesson online course that has helped over 1000 women transform their love lives over the past 6 years

Now we can’t wait to see
what it will do for you!

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Get Ready for Love will help you to:

  • Find out why you've been getting so stuck when it comes to your love life

  • Discover the blocks that have been stopping you from finding love and learn how to clear them away

  • Learn why you've been attracting the unavailable ones into your love life and learn how to start attracting in the available ones, who are ready for a relationship

  • Realise the importance of cultivating a loving relationship with yourself and learn how to start doing that

  • Learn how to let your guard down, turn that green light on and make yourself available to the loving and secure relationship that you really deserve

  • Discover a whole new way of approaching dating - one that is intelligent and fun

  • Learn how to maximise your chances of meeting quality available people (both online and IRL)

  • Feel genuinely excited and confident about what lies ahead!


What’s included in the Get Ready for Love course

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Get Ready for Love is delivered to you in
30 powerful, bite-sized lessons

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  • Videos bursting with love and big smiles from Selina & Vicki as they guide you through the course

  • Audio tutorials that you can download and listen to on-the-go

  • Guided visualisations and powerful EFT ('Tapping') coaching audios

  • Special guests sharing their wisdom and secrets to finding love

  • A 42-page beauuutifully designed workbook to accompany the course

PLUS… Life-time access to the Love Zone - the private online sisterhood community where you can hang out with Vicki, Selina and a whole tribe of supportive women

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The moment you sign up to Get Ready for Love, you get instant access to the 30 essential lessons that we have found to be the most effective and powerful in getting you ready for love and on your way to a happy and healthy relationship.

All course materials, including videos, audio mp3s, worksheets and bonus materials are within our private members training platform.


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  • Discover the blocks that have been stopping you from finding love and learn how to clear them away.

  • Learn how to handle your inner shitty committee aka your inner critic, that is often quick to point out all of the reasons why you’re not finding love. It is this negative voice that could be doing more damage to your love life than anything else!

  • Learn how to heal old wounds from past hurt and heartbreak and open your heart to love.


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  • Realise the importance of cultivating a loving relationship with yourself and learn practical ways that you can start doing that.

  • Learn practices that help you to treat yourself with the same love and respect that you want from others.

  • Learn how to design your life around the things that bring you joy, fulfilment and happiness.


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  • Get clear on what you are looking for in a partner and in your future relationship.

  • Learn how to let your guard down, turn that green light on and make yourself available for the relationship you desire.

  • Learn how to become a magnet to the kind of relationship you really deserve.


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  • Discover a whole new way of approaching dating, one that is enjoyable and fun!

  • Learn how to write your online dating profile with our ‘Top 10 tips to writing your online profile... without getting your knickers in a twist' PDF guide.

  • Discover coaching techniques to help you to deal with dating nerves and fears of rejection.

  • Learn how to maximise your chances of meeting quality, available people (both online and IRL) and to feel positive and excited about the dating journey ahead!

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Your coaches on this journey


Selina Barker and Vicki Pavitt have 17 years of combined experience in helping women find love, create lives they love and find careers that make them come alive and have lead over 3,000 people globally through their coaching programmes, courses and retreats.

Vicki Pavitt is the love coach of the duo and the former Dating Expert for and brings a powerful mix of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping) tools and techniques to courses and coaching.

Selina Barker is the life design and career coach of the duo and brings 12 years of experience creating successful online courses and coaching a long list of clients from Google directors, to A-list musicians to leaders in the creative and music industry.

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Get Ready for Love has the power to transform your love life forever, opening you up to finally receive the loving relationship
you’ve always dreamed of

So are you ready?

Enroll now and get these additional tutorials, for FREE!

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Body Confidence and Dating

Harri Rose is a Health Coach and Body Acceptance Coach who helps women to unapologetically love their bodies. In this exclusive audio, Harri shares her tips on how you can achieve body acceptance and how you can feel confident and comfortable in your own skin when you are dating.

Sex, Self-love and Dating

Victoria Roberts is a certified sexological body worker and body image + intimacy coach who works with individuals and couples to help them to learn about their bodies, sex and sexuality. In this exclusive bonus audio, Victoria shares her loving approach to sex and the power and importance of giving your body the pleasure it deserves - both when you are single and in a relationship.

Healing Heartbreak

Heartbreak can be so painful. A mixture of grief, loss, shock and despair can set in and it doesn’t matter if you’ve been with someone for 3 weeks or 3 years. Break ups are hard. In this exclusive audio, mindfulness teacher Kim Murray takes you through a guided visualisation that will help you to process your emotions and reduce anxiety around your heartbreak.


When can I start the course?

Immediately! Get Ready For Love is a self-study online course which you can start whenever you like. It is not a live course so you can take the course completely at your own pace. You will have access to the course the minute you sign up.

I’m a busy woman! How much time do I realistically need to do the course?

We have designed this course for busy women in mind which is why the whole course has been split up into bite-sized manageable chunks - it is like having a love coach in your pocket, with advice, tools and guidance that can be listened to during the daily commute or when you're snuggled up at home in bed.

How much time does it take to complete the course?

Even though we have designed this course as a 30 day journey, we actually find people like to take a little longer than a month to complete it. But as it is a self-study course, it is entirely up to you how long you take to complete it - it might be 30 days or 6 months.. or longer! That part is entirely up to you. Go at your own pace :)

How long will I have access to the Get Ready For Love online course?

You will have lifetime access 24/7 from the date you register.

How are the Get Ready For Love online course materials delivered?

All course materials are delivered online via our private members platform and are available as soon as you purchase.

I hate online dating, can I still do this course?

Of course you can! Online dating is a wonderful way to meet new people but it is not the only way to meet new people. We teach you plenty of ways to meet people in real life as well as online :)

Is this programme only for heterosexual women?

Women, people who identify as women and non-binary people are all welcome on the Get Ready for Love course, regardless of your sexual preference. The Get Ready for Love principles work for everyone. However it is important that you know that we are two heterosexual women and the majority of the people that do this course are heterosexual women so most experiences we share of our own and people we have worked with are those of women dating men. If you’re wondering if it will be right for you based on this then please do email us to talk it through -

How long do I remain part of the online community?

You will have lifetime access to The Love Zone, our private Facebook group that accompanies the course.

What if I have technical issues?

If you have any technical issues please reach out to us at and we’ll sort you out

More questions?

No problem, drop us an email on