Are you feeling stuck and fed up when it comes to love and dating?

Feeling like this whole modern dating game of swiping and meeting people through your phone isn’t for you?

Starting to fear that you’ve left it too late and now all the good ones are gone?

Beginning to wonder if it IS ever going to happen for you?

You’re not alone.

We hear this kind of thing ALL the time. And in particular from smart, fun-loving, independent women whose friends are all saying ‘but you’re amazing, I can’t believe you’re still single’ (and yes we know how frustrating those comments can be!).

We know how hard it can be to feel like you're watching everyone else find their 'person', except you.

We know that the thought of spending another evening endlessly swiping on dating apps makes you want to throw your phone out of the window.

And we know how easy it can be to keep yourself busy to avoid having to deal with the loneliness and disappointment of it all.

But no matter how hopeless you might be feeling about your love life right now, no matter how hard you might think it is to meet people these days, here is what you need to know…

You absolutely CAN change the course of your love life. It is NOT down to fate or luck. It is down to you.

You have the power to turn your love life around.  

And we know this because over the last 5 years we have made love our business and we have seen close to a thousand women all over the world go from feeling totally stuck in their love lives and feeling like it was never going to happen, to finding themselves in the kind of relationship they’d always dreamed of.

And it is so much easier than you think.

Yes, dating can be a rollercoaster ride. The nerves, the not-knowing and the courage required to put yourself out there and open up your heart is always going to feel a little bit scary.

But when you have the right tools to navigate the dating journey, a pair of love coaches by your side, offering you loving guidance each step of the way and a whole community of women to connect with that are on the same journey as you, dating can start to feel a lot less 😤😤😤and a lot more 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

So if you’re ready to transform your love life then we can’t wait to be your guides.

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Get Ready For Love

The 30 day online course that will revolutionise your love life from the inside out!

We can't wait to see what it will do for you!

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With ‘Get Ready for Love’ you get a love coach in your pocket, with advice, tools and guidance that can be listened to during the daily commute or en route to a date.

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  • A 42-page beauuutifully designed PDF workbook to accompany the course

  • Videos bursting with love and big smiles from Selina & Vicki as they guide you through the course

  • Audio tutorials that you can download and listen to on-the-go

  • Guided visualisations and powerful EFT ('Tapping') coaching audios

  • Special guests sharing their wisdom and secrets to finding love

  • Life-time access to the Love Zone - the private online sisterhood community where you can hang out with Vicki, Selina and a whole tribe of supportive women

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The moment you sign up to Get Ready for Love, you get instant access to the 30 essential lessons that we've found to be the most effective and powerful in getting you ready for love and on your way to a happy and healthy relationship.

Each lesson builds on the last, taking you step-by-step through the 4 key phases that will get you ready for love:

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  • Discover the blocks that have been stopping you from finding love and learn how to clear them away.

  • Learn how to handle your inner shitty committee - the inner critic that is often quick to point out all of the reasons why you’re not finding love. It is this negative voice that could be doing more damage to your love life than anything else!

  • Learn how to heal old wounds from past hurt and heartbreak and open your heart to love.

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  • Realise the importance of cultivating a loving relationship with yourself and learn practical ways that you can start doing that.

  • Learn practices that help you to treat yourself with the same love and respect that you want from others.

  • Learn how to design your life around the things that bring you joy, fulfilment and happiness.

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  • Get clear on what you are looking for in a partner and in your future relationship.

  • Learn how to let your guard down, turn that green light on and make yourself available for the relationship you desire.

  • Learn how to become a magnet to the kind of relationship you really deserve.

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  • Discover a whole new way of approaching dating, one that is enjoyable and fun!

  • Learn how to write your online dating profile with our ‘Top 10 tips to writing your online profile... without getting your knickers in a twist' guide.

  • Discover coaching techniques to help you deal with dating nerves and the fear of rejection.

  • Learn how to maximise your chances of meeting quality available guys and to feel positive and excited about the dating journey ahead.

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About Selina and Vicki

Selina Barker and Vicki Pavitt have 16 years of combined experience in helping women find love, create lives they love and find careers that make them come alive and have lead over 3,000 people globally through their coaching programmes, courses and retreats.

Vicki Pavitt is the love coach of the duo and the Dating Expert for and brings a powerful mix of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping) tools and techniques to courses and coaching.

Selina Barker is the life design and career coach of the duo and brings 10 years of experience creating successful online courses and coaching a long list of clients from Google directors, to A-list musicians to leaders in the creative and music industry.




When can I start the course?

Immediately! Get Ready For Love is a fully DIY online course which you can start whenever you like. It is not a live course so you can take the course completely at your own pace. You will have access to the course the minute you sign up.

I’m a busy woman! How much time do I realistically need to do the course?

We have designed this course for busy women in mind which is why the whole course has been split up into bite-sized manageable chunks - it is like having a love coach in your pocket, with advice, tools and guidance that can be listened to during the daily commute or when you're snuggled up at home in bed.

How much time does it take to complete the course?

Even though we have designed this course as a 30 day journey, we actually find people like to take a little longer than a month to complete it. But as it is DIY, it is entirely up to you how long you take to complete it - it might be 30 days or 6 months.. or longer! That part is entirely up to you. Go at your own pace :)

How long will I have access to the Get Ready For Love online course?

You will have lifetime access 24/7 from the date you register.

How are the Get Ready For Love online course materials delivered?

All course materials are delivered online and are available as soon as you purchase.

What if I have technical issues?

If you have any technical issues please reach out to us at and we’ll sort you out

Is this only for heterosexual women?

Yes, at the moment this course talks about women dating men, but we are working with a wonderful queer love coach so that we can offer Get Ready for Love to all this space!