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A bespoke 2 month coaching programme
with Vicki as your wing woman

My time with Vicki has been the most valuable and positive step I have ever made in my personal life. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that at the end of the coaching I met a man I can picture spending the rest of my life with.
— Kate Shepherd

As a love coach and former dating expert for, one of the biggest complaints that I hear from single women is that dating is a source of frustration, stress and anxiety.

Not to mention how exhausting and time-consuming it is.

And I get it. I know how hard it can be.

The nerves, the not-knowing, the ghosting and the disappointments can make the whole thing feel like an incredibly lonely process of endless swiping and uninspiring drinks..

But it doesn't have to be that way.

Imagine if you had your very own love coach and wing woman holding your hand and guiding you through the dating journey? What if you could learn tools and techniques to help you to manage dating fears and dating freak outs? What if you could discover ways to actually enjoy dating and make it fun?

Well that is what you get with the WING WOMAN COACHING PROGRAMME.


'Wing Woman' is a 2 month coaching programme designed to transform your whole experience of dating. From getting in the right headspace for dating to creating a profile that will attract the kind of person you want to meet, to dealing with dating nerves and fears and everything in between, I will be your wing woman, lovingly guiding you through the dating journey, helping you to approach it from a place of love (and to have some fun with it!)

We will focus the sessions on different stages of the dating journey and there will be homework assignments for you to do in between, including dating projects and dating challenges (to get you to gently step out of your comfort zone and flex that dating muscle) and practices that encourage self love (so that you are keeping the love topped up throughout!).

Whether you are wanting to meet people using online dating apps or IRL / in person (or a mixture of both!), Wing Woman will teach you how to date with confidence and ease.

I will be teaching you my favourite tool in my coaching toolbox, Tapping / EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to manage anything from dating fears to dating freak outs.

EFT is a powerful self-help technique that is used to release negative emotions like anxiety and fear.. and fast. It is an easy to use coaching tool that involves talking about a specific issue or emotion whilst tapping with the finger tips on key points on the body’s meridians to rebalance the energy. By tapping on these different energy meridians while emoting about our fears, our anxieties and our limiting beliefs (the ones that can sabotage our love lives), we allow ourselves to release those fears and basically get out of our own way! 

I can honestly say the work I’ve done with Vicki
has been life changing.

Vicki opened my eyes to the types of people I was interested in and showed me how I could go ‘off-piste’ and give guys that were traditionally not my type a chance. She taught me how to love myself, to enjoy my own company and be at peace with being single.

And now, 3 months later, I’ve not only met the man of my dreams, but I’m a stronger, calmer
and happier person all round.

I can’t recommend Vicki highly enough. Her work is actual magic
— Lauren, London

Over the course of the 2 months you will:

  • Get clear on the kind of relationship you really want... and deserve

  • Learn how to get into the right mindset for success with dating

  • Create an online dating profile that will attract the kind of person you really want to meet

  • Learn how to have great conversations online (that lead to dates)

  • Learn how to maximise your chances of meeting quality available people (both online and IRL)

  • Discover practical tools and techniques that will support and empower you on your dating journey (including Guided Tapping/EFT videos, Guided Meditations / Visualisations and Journalling prompts)

  • Learn how to tap away dating nerves and dating fears so that you can approach your dates as your most authentic and confident self

  • Discover a whole new way of approaching dating - one that is enjoyable and fun!

  • Feel the support and loving guidance from Vicki as your personal love coach and wing woman for 2 months

You will emerge at the end of the 2 months feeling empowered, supported and genuinely excited about what lies ahead!

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How it works

Every coaching journey with my 121 clients is different. I tailor the journey so that it suits you, while offering you guidance and support along the way, so that you have me by your side throughout the 2 months. Having this 1 on 1 support really is life changing.

Here is how the 2 month programme is structured:

  • A personalised 1:1 coaching programme for 2 months created just for you

  • 3 x 1.5 hour 1:1 coaching sessions with Vicki - in person (if you are in London) / online (recordings of the sessions included so you can revisit the sessions at any time).

  • Actionable homework assignments to complete between sessions (including online dating profile review and guidance on how to approach the journey of dating in a way that is fun and enjoyable!)

  • Fortnightly check-ins, guidance and support from Vicki via email between each coaching session (including final email check-in after your final session)

  • Dating projects and dating challenges that will help you to gently step out of your comfort zone and flex your dating muscle. We will design these together and they will be your focus in between sessions

  • Toolbox of tools and techniques that will support you on your dating journey (including Guided Tapping/EFT videos, Guided Meditations / Visualisations and Journalling prompts)

  • Personal love coach and dating wing woman for 2 months, holding your hand each step of the way

Price upon request.


Wing Woman is now fully booked!


To join the waiting list then please fill in your details below and Vicki will be in touch when spaces become available. Thanks so much, V xx


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About Vicki

With a degree in Psychology and training in coaching techniques NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping), Vicki specialises in helping women to lead happy and healthy love lives. Vicki is a Love Coach, NLP Practitioner, EFT Practitioner and former Dating expert for

Vicki changed the way I thought about dating and relationships. I realised that it all started with me - that I had to understand and love myself first. With her help not only did dating became more fun (and successful), but so did life in general. I am happier, more open, more engaged and really looking forward to what lies ahead.
— Shonagh, London

Further Testimonials for Vicki’s coaching

"7 years of single life ended in a month and a half. I mainly wanted to write to say thank you Vicki. I really feel you have helped me so much. I’ve been sleeping better, being more in the present moment, moving out of my comfort zone and actively dealing with worries using the techniques you’ve taught me. I’ve loved being a part of Project Love this year. I’m hugely grateful for your time and kindness.”

— Katy, London

”Vicki taught me how to truly love myself and how to be happy again and changed my life. I can’t really explain how it happened or what Vicky did but over the course of the six sessions and through the communication between each session, I came to feel not just better about the difficult break-up I had recently gone through but ‘better’ and happier in myself than I think I ever have done. People tell you all the time that you need to love yourself before anyone else will, but no one seems able to explain how to do that. That’s what Vicky has taught me. She taught me how to truly love myself and how to be happy again".

— Jayne, London

Since Project Love, I met someone and its quite possibly the healthiest relationship I have had which surely is reflective of the relationship I now have with myself. Interestingly, a comment made, was that, me knowing my own self worth, is one of the things that he is most attracted to. So a massive thank you to you for helping me to discover it & three cheers to Project Love!”

— Tracey, London

“They say ‘timing is everything’ and my experience with Project Love is certainly a testimony to that. I was at a point in my life where I was completely ready and willing to do some difficult thinking around why my love life had never really worked out, (yet all other areas of my life had). Working with Vicki, she supported and encouraged me to challenge myself to open up to being vulnerable and to find ways of letting go of past hurts that were keeping me stuck in a “you’re not good enough” soundtrack. I came out of the 3 month programme confidently equipped with new ways of thinking and reflecting and also having learnt so much more about myself! I am so pleased to have made the decision to complete this programme with Vicki and would recommend anyone to do the same. If you feel stuck and are genuinely ready and willing to work on changing this, then your timing will be right also...... I wish you all the insight, confidence and positivity that the programme gave to me xx ”

— Lisa, London

“I was on the plane to India when I emailed Vicki about Love Coaching. I may have been on my way to some swanky retreat in a far flung land, but I was at my lowest ebb. During the previous 10 months I had lost my job, my boyfriend and I don’t think it would be an exaggeration to say I was very close to losing my sanity. But the one thing I mourned most was losing my sense of self. And Vicki helped me find it again. I contacted Vicky because I was in a bad way, I couldn’t get over losing my partner, I thought I’d never find love again. I was totally bereft.

The sessions with Vicki felt like a mix of talking therapy with some practical, holistic coaching. I was upset, but she didn’t let me wallow in my misery; she was supportive but didn’t spout off about how much of a bastard my ex was and how I should pull myself together. It was like talking to a wise older sister.

Little by little I began to find myself again and even more importantly I began to love myself again. I had spent so long focussing on what I lost, I had to be made to see everything I had, and everything I was capable of. One of the biggest things I got from our sessions was this idea that you can build a life you love and fill it with happiness and joy yourself. Everyone tells you that you’re in charge of your own life, but Vicki gave me the practical steps to put this into action.

It’s less than a year since I stopped seeing Vicki and I practise the philosophies of Project Love daily. I’m in a serious and committed relationship but more importantly I am happy within myself.”

— Fong, London

“When I decided to join the 3 month coaching programme I was at a time in my life where I felt like I was stuck in a relationship rut (repeating the same mistakes over and over) and believed all men were just a huge disappointment. While I had just starting seeing someone at the time I was full of anxiety and fear. Over the course of 3 months Vicki really listened to me and gave me a set of tools and strategies to break my relationship patterns and along the course I realised that I am important and that I do matter, while this sounds very simple I had always put boyfriends’ needs first above my own. I have learnt so much from Vicki and cannot express how grateful I am. I cannot recommend this course highly enough, I have much more clarity now and feel so much happier in myself! Thank you x”

— Clara, London

“ I learned far more from Vicki’s focused coaching in the few sessions and time we had than all the previous experiences of coaching and therapy I’d had over the years. Project Love, with Vicki’s help, has started me on an exciting adventure, and opened me up to so much more knowledge and experiences. It’s ignited a real desire to learn more and I look forward to continuing this journey of self discovery and love”

— Helen, Ireland

“BIG THANK you for everything Vicki, it’s been such a pleasure spending time with you. I gained a lot from the programme, especially so from gaining further insights and clarity about who I am and how I want to conduct my life :)”

— Ruth, London

“Thank you so much for this email and for the session we had last week. I hoped it would be useful, but it was amazing and exceeded all my expectations, you are a great coach!”

— Ana, London

“The tapping exercise is working like a charm. I am feeling more grounded, happy and soft each time I do the exercise. It feels like I am more in control now. That nasty fog of low energy is disappearing! So, my wonderful Vicki, a big bow to you and a huge thanks for the wonderful and effective session.”

— Eef Bos, The Netherlands

“Vicki has made a major impact on my self esteem and confidence since I met her. Compared to other therapies I’ve taken, I didn’t need many sessions with her to feel the positive benefits. She quickly zoned in and focused on how my mind works and used techniques that really have stayed with me, at which I can turn to when needed. She is warm, approachable and positive throughout. She was also the first therapist I’ve met that I felt understood my social situation and pressures. It was extremely easy to open up to her, and I felt she understood my issues, helping me to get through them and give me tools to deal with them in a better way on my own going forward.

— Monica Rose Durden, London

“I came to Vicki confused and anxious about an existing relationship - concerned that I was making do with what felt ‘comfortable’, rather than following my heart. It’s always hard to have these types of conversations and admit to anyone, let alone a stranger, that your current relationship isn’t working, or that you’re having issues with your love life. Vicki however made me feel completely at ease, understanding exactly where I was coming from. The sessions we had were invaluable and they helped me to put everything in perspective. We carried out exercises that enabled me to observe my relationship from varying angles, identifying what may or may not be working and what I needed to do on a personal level to feel happier. She also left me with brilliant tips and homework to carry out, all of which brought me to a more contented place, equipped to make more confident decisions about my love life. I couldn’t recommend her highly enough!”

— Anon

“Vicki helped me in more ways than she’ll know. She really listened to me, didn’t judge me, and most importantly - didn’t patronise me. Instead, she taught me that it’s okay to let your guard down, and that you really do have to learn to love and accept yourself before others will love you too. And that’s what Project Love is all about - no gimmicks, no games - just bringing it back to basics. Her advice and one-to-one tuition really helped me to relax and be more open - and was a major factor in me walking into a relationship. It also helped my self esteem in other areas of my life, where a bout of work-related anxiety and loss of confidence had left me feeling really lost. Congratulations ladies on creating a fantastic, useful resource for women - it’s long overdue.”

— Rebecca, Kent`

“Vicki taught me how to be more in the present moment which has been a revolutionary change for the better. Through her coaching I learned that I had many blocks and triggers that I was never aware of. Releasing these has opened up my love life in so many positive ways & I now feel ready and excited to welcome my life partner into my life. Thank you Vicki for making such a positive difference to my life.”

— Bridget, London

“The individual coaching programme gave me a safe space to explore my feelings about love, life and relationships. It empowered me to create a positive vision for the future and I feel lighter and more confident. I wholeheartedly recommend it :-)”

— Emma