I want to tell everyone how happy I am

I want to tell everyone here that I am happy. It’s a year and a half since I started Get Ready for Love and I have to say that it has changed my life. When I started it, I was miserable after a long run of romantic failures, and I was letting that impact on other areas of my life. I knew it was important to love yourself, a lot of people say that but there isn’t an instruction manual on how to achieve this, until now!

On the outside it would seem like nothing has changed, I am not dating anyone & I do all the same things I always did, but inside everything has changed. I feel 100% happy with my life now.

The most important lesson I have learned while doing the course and the thing that has had the greatest impact on my life is learning to deal with the shitty committee or ‘The Frog Chorus’ as I now call them. This hideous group of ugly toads were hidden away in my mind, whispering terrible things to me all the time and I didn’t even know they were there! They said really strange things like ‘Men won’t be interested in you because you don’t eat bacon’ (this is probably the most stupid thing they said!). I turned to look at them and they didn’t like it, and then I started to tell them that some of the things they said didn’t really make sense and that I had evidence to prove it! They have never recovered from that!

I overheard a lady tell a little girl (maybe her grandaughter) the other day ‘Girls don’t play with lightsabers!’. The girl, who was about 4 years old, ignored her, picked up the lightsaber and proceeded to go to battle with whoever she imagined she was fighting. This is what I can do now with the Frog Chorus. They might still try to whisper in my ear, but I can roll my eyes and pick up the lightsaber!

Thanks for the course, it really has been a game changer for me.
— Sarah