Ep 116: 7 lessons I’ve learnt about the anxious attachment style in love

 

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Hiya lovely, 

I’m so excited to share this week’s episode with you (my first solo one!) ✨

In the episode, I share the 7 lessons that I’ve learnt about love, dating and relationships as I celebrate 7 years of love coaching. 

The lessons that I share are about what I’ve learnt when looking at my own relationship pattern through the lens of attachment theory (anxious attachment) and how this has shaped my love coaching work too. 

Tune in to hear me share:

  • The three main Attachment styles and how they influence your mindset and attitudes to love, dating and relationships 

  • Why anxious attachers are attracted to the people that are the least likely to meet their needs (inc why you’re attracted to the unavailable ones)

  • The Pursue-Withdraw pattern in relationships 

  • The power of our minds in hindering or or helping us to move forward in our love lives

  • My own personal story of becoming more secure and fulfilled in love

  • The importance of self love and vulnerability on a dating journey 

  • What it means to redefine your love blueprint to enjoy a happy and fulfilling love life

  • And so much more!

I absolutely loved recording this episode - I hope you enjoy it! 

If you are listening to this episode feeling stuck in an unfulfilling relationship pattern like the ones I share, then I want you to know that change is possible. I really believe that with the right guidance and the willingness to learn and grow, that we can rewrite our relationship blueprints, to enjoy happy and fulfilling love lives.

I’ve just opened the doors to my 2021 love coaching programme - designed for women with an anxious attachment. This coaching programme is my absolute heart and soul and it contains everything I know, in 7 years of love coaching, about how to become more secure in love.

I’m holding discovery calls this month and in January. Come and check out vickipavitt.com (my brand new website 🤗) if you’re interested in joining me on this next adventure! 

So much love, V xxx

 
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